Butt plugs are a great way to explore and experience new sensations in anal play and offer a fun way to spice things up with a partner or if you're going solo. Butt plugs come in different shapes, sizes, and materials, and can be used by both men and women to increase sensations and heighten orgasms. In this guide, we'll cover everything you need to know to get started with using butt plugs.
What is a butt plug?
A butt plug is a fun sex toy specially crafted to bring you pleasure when inserted into the anus. With a tapered, cone-like shape and a flared base to keep them from wandering off...or up! They're available in a variety of exciting materials like:
- silicone
- glass
- metal
Why use a butt plug?
There are many reasons why people use butt plugs. While there may still be some stigma around the use of butt plugs, don't let that put you off experimenting! The correct use of butt plugs can elicit the strongest orgasms for both men and women. For gals they can create a pleasurable sense of fullness and increase the sensations felt during penetration. For guys, prostate stimulation can create super intensive orgasms.
Other people use them for anal training to stretch their anus to prepare themselves for anal sex. Butt plugs come in different sizes, so if you're new to anal training it's important to start small and use plenty of lube to avoid tearing or having a painful experience. You can gradually work your way up to a bigger size with practise.
Sex educator Emily Odesser suggests a sexy way to use butt plugs to spice up your nude pics “I love the idea of sending a cheeky nude (he-he) with a plug in, especially as so much of our dating lives is relegated to the online world.” We like her thinking!
Regardless of your reason for using a butt plug, it's important to choose the right size and material for your needs and don't forget to lube up!
How to choose a butt plug
Choosing the right butt plug is essential for a safe and enjoyable experience. Here are some things to consider when choosing a butt plug:
Size: Butt plugs come in different sizes, from small beginner plugs to large advanced plugs. If you're new to using butt plugs, it's best to start with a small size butt plug and work your way up. You don't want to start with a large plug and risk injuring yourself. You could try a butt plug kit and experiment with different sizes.
Material: Butt plugs are made from different materials, each with its own advantages and disadvantages. Silicone is a popular material for butt plugs as it's body-safe, easy to clean, and can be sterilized. Glass and metal are also popular materials for butt plugs as they are non-porous and can be easily cleaned. Wood and rubber are other options, but they can be harder to clean and may not be as body-safe as other materials.
Shape: Butt plugs come in different shapes, from conical to bulbous to tapered. The shape you choose will depend on your personal preferences and experience level.
Flared base: It's important to choose a butt plug with a flared base to prevent the plug from getting lost inside the body. The base should be wider than the widest part of the plug.
How to use a butt plug
Once you've chosen the right butt plug for your needs, it's time to start using it. Here's a step-by-step guide on how to use a butt plug:
Step 1: Prepare your body
First things first, you need to get your body prepped and primed for plug action. Make sure you've cleaned up down there with a gentle soap or specialized anal cleanser. Some people like to use an anal douche to make sure there are no messy accidents. You'll want everything to be nice and hygienic - especially if you're playing with a partner.
Step 2: Lube it up
We've talked about lube a few times in this article, but we can't stress how important it is to use enough lube, like Yes Lubricants, during anal play. Grab some water-based lube and slather it all over the plug and the surrounding area. This is key for a comfy and safe experience, as the anus doesn't naturally lubricate itself.
Step 3: Get comfy
Find a comfortable position that allows easy access to your anus, relax and get in the mood! Creating a bit of ambience never goes amiss, so get some Barry White playing in the background, turn down the lights and get some incense burning to relax.
Step 4: Insert with care
...but first start with a bit of foreplay to get warmed up and your muscles relaxed. Don't try to shove it in all at once, slowly and carefully insert the plug into your anus. If you feel any discomfort, stop and try applying more lube or opt for a smaller plug size. Once it's in there, you should feel snug and secure and horny as hell!
Step 5: Plug and play
You're all set to enjoy your butt plug! Start with shorter periods of wear to begin with and work your way up to longer sessions as you get more comfortable. Enjoy the ride!
