In this guide, we are going to talk you through how to deep throat your man like a PRO!
There's so much hype around deep-throating - first of all there's the1972 movie Deep Throat that EVERYONE still talks about, it features heavily in porn and then...well...guys just like it a real lot. It's easy to see why it's such a popular sex act.
But, for BJ givers...let's face it, its not the easiest thing to master thanks to that little thing called the gag reflex. We are also talking EFFORT. I know you hear me! Mouth-aching, tear-streaming, gag-reflexing effort! We'll talk you through some tips and tricks that makes the deep throat way more easy to master.
But first of all - tip number one! Only do it if you really want to and you get a kick out of deep-throating your man. Otherwise avoid it - it should be fun and enjoyable for BOTH parties. Also, if you don't enjoy it, you'll lose the vibe and it's more likely to give him the ick than the horn. Do something else that you both enjoy.
Practise Makes Perfect
Stage 1: You can practise deep-throating on a dildo. Choose one that's a similar size to your man so the practise runs are as close to the real experience as possible. Practising on a dildo will help you get used to the sensation of the penis hitting the back of your throat and this can help to ease the gag-reflex the more you get used to it. It will also help you to learn your own limits and how far you can comfortably go with your partner. You can even get suction cup dildos to practise on so you can get in position and go hands-free! The more you practise, the more confident you will be in real-life so get going!
Stage 2: Most people need a little extra help when it comes to the dreaded gag-reflex. No one wants to wretch or puke on their partners penis. So, we have a not-so-secret little hack for gag-free deep-throats and it comes in the form of a discreet little 12ml bottle of deep throat spray by Intt! Trust me when I say you need this bad boy in your little bag of tricks. Just a couple of sprays to the back of your throat gives a numbing sensation so when the dildo/penis hits the back of your throat, you can't feel it as much, meaning the gag-reflex doesn't get triggered. Huzzah!
Take it Slow
Ok, so you've got past the practise stage and now its time to go for it in real-life. You're going to want to start slow and build your way up to the deep throating action. This is great for 2 reasons:
1 - warm up your mouth: like with any physical exertion, you need to warm up your mouth muscles. It also helps you get into the mood and build up rhythm, instead of going straight in for kill...or cum!
2 - get him squirming for more: spend some time teasing your man before taking the whole penis is your mouth. Suck, lick and circle the shaft, head and tip before increasing the pace and building momentum.
Get Wet.
The wetter the better when it comes to deep throating, so make sure you choose some flavoured lube before the games begin. Plenty of lubricant will make giving a deep throat so much easier helping you slide back and forwards on his member with ease and it will also feel better for him. If you don't have lube to hand you can always use spit.
Advanced Deep Throating Tips.
These tips are really for the more advanced and experienced deep-throaters. Remember, safety and being comfortable with what you doing is so important. No one wants any accidents or a case of PTSD!
- Lie on the bed with your neck and head hanging over the side. Allow your man to stand over and deep throat you. In this position - he's in full control and sets the pace. You'll definitely need your gag reflex spray for this one, unless you're super experienced.
- Pharyngeal muscles contraction - this little trick allows you to make those gag reflex contractions work for you instead of against you! It takes some practise but if you can master this technique it will feel amazing for your man when your throat contracts on him when he is in your mouth.
- Lick his balls - get him as deep inside your mouth as possible and extend your tongue out to lick his balls at the same time for an extra special sensation that will drive him wild.
Practical Deep Throating Tips:
- Breathing - worried about breathing?! Keep things in motion and breathing won't be a problem!
- Use condoms - deep throating is high risk for catching an STI so always be safe and not sorry!
Now you are armed with some top tips on how to give the best deep-throat blow jobs!
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