Looking for ideas to spice up your sex life this Kinkmas?! We’ve got 5…thank us later

We get it - Christmas can be a whole lot of stress with things like gift shopping, tight finances, and facing that family member at the dinner table you secretly despise. This can often mean that intimacy and festive fun with your partner can take a back seat.

But fear not! To make sure your Christmas is more fun and playful than it is stressful and glum, the OhMy! team have pulled together our top five kinky games to play over the festive period!

1 Satisfy your Santa fetish!

A Santa fetish, otherwise known as ‘Santaphilia’ is said to stem from St Nick’s dual role of both caregiver and disciplinarian. If you find a dominating Santa a turn on, indulge in a bit of role play and get your other half to don a sexy Santa outfit. Been a naughty boy or girl? That’s what whips are for!

Our resident sexpert Gemma Nice says "People can find Santa sexy because of his persona where he is a caring, nurturing man. He provides comfort and security to people. People often see this as a good sexy part of a personality at it means they will be taken  care of. This fetish also allows for peoples ‘Daddy fetishes’ to also come alive. There is this rugged manly look on him which some people find attractive. This also plays into the power dynamics behind him. People see him a powerful man and has that ‘naughty or nice’ part so he gets decide if you are naughty or nice. This opens up into the dominance/submissive parts of a sexual relationship. Santa can be sexy because he gets to rule what you do. There is also thought that because its seen as a secret fetish, it makes Santa even more sexy for some. It's like a naughty fantasy and when we dress up or role play in these scenarios, it makes it even hotter because its usually forbidden in normal society.

2. Elf on the Shelf: After Dark Edition

Elves can be mischievous and naughty and need a bit of discipline!

In this game, the sub dresses up as an elf and plays some naughty pranks. The naughtier the pranks, the bigger the spanking (or whichever your preferred punishment)! This is particularly fun for those of you who like to indulge your bratty side.

This game can also be played over a longer period, leading up to Christmas, to build the anticipation and sexual tension. What naughty pranks can you think of playing this festive season?

Either way, you’re going to need a paddle…

3. Play Snow Angels

If you’ve never heard of the snow angel sex position, Christmas is the perfect time to try! And don’t worry if there’s no actual snow outside - use your imagination!

How to get into position:

The penis or strap-on owner goes on top with their head facing their partner's feet - think missionary but the opposite way around. It might take a bit of readjustment if you’re not used to this position. The person on the bottom wraps their legs around their partner’s lower back which lifts the pelvis to allow for easy entry - they’re also the one in control - going as fast or slow as they like!

Our sexpert Gemma Nice says "The snow angel is a great position for a new sensation and it gives the person on the bottom more control as the pelvis can be tilted up. This stimulates the 12,000 nerve endings around the clitoris meaning more stimulation and a better orgasm. The way the penis or strap on is inserted, it has more access to the G -Spot meaning a lot more all over body orgasms. This is a great one to keep warm as well because it builds up friction. The person on the bottom, has full control of how deep they want the penis to be inserted and can go as fast or as slow as they like because they are in full control. To get even more of a deeper penetration, place a pillow under the person on the bottom as this tilts the pelvis towards the penis, making it easier for access. Keep this playful and don't put too much pressure on this for you to not enjoy it. Go have fun, moving around and communicate always."

4. Silent Night

For this kinky game you’re going to need a gag! Gags are used in kink to increase feelings of vulnerability, restrict speech and heighten sensory experiences. Always remember that gag play should be consensual between a dom and a sub, and communication and safety should be a top priority before bringing one into the bedroom.

Use other sensory items to heighten the pleasure, think switching between hot and cold sensations when orally pleasuring your partner or introducing whips and paddles. 

5. Tickle with Tinsel

This game is all about sensory play, and added bonus points, using the tinsel from the Christmas tree means this game won’t cost a penny!

Use the tinsel as a sensory tickler to build anticipation before the main event - use the tinsel to tickle your partner around their neck, chest and abdomen, teasing them before moving on to more sensitive areas like the inner thighs and buttocks. Within the world of kink, individuals who experience sexual arousal from tickling, being tickled, or witnessing tickling scenes is referred to as Knismolagnia.

For added excitement, add some handcuffs to the mix - your sub will be begging for more!

So, there you have our top 5 tips for Christmas kink! Always remember - safety first and consent is a must! 

Happy Kinkmas! X